Best lessons are learnt through bitter experience

Best lessons are learnt through Bitter experience Life is full of chaos and Happiness. Life is unpredictable no doubt. but it is widely considered that one can learn Best lessons in life through bitter experience Like in Indian astrology, there is mythical story about Lord Saturn who makes the Individual strong, discipline Independent and thought taught best lesson to Individual through bitter experience unlike the way of Lord Venus and Lord Jupiter who teaches best lessons through a positive and sweet experiences. lets talk about the Mahatma Gandhi, he learnt his best lessons through bitter experience. He learnt the lessons of Humanity, truthfulness and non violence through his bitter experience.

during his stay at South Africa, when he was thrown out of the Rail wagon by whites because he was a person of colour. His bitter experiences in Africa built his character, he fought for people of South Africa and later contributed in Indian National struggle and became the father of Nation also known as Bapu. In this essay, we will go through the facts about how bitter experiences contributed to best lesson at different levels and stages and how why bitter experiences are Important for Individuals to develop themselves. At Individual level, bitter experiences shapes the person's development and neural activity. A person can become the strongest, if he learns through the bitter experience rather than obsessing over the past mistakes. There is a South Indian movie named 'Euphoria', which depicts the story of a girl who was gang-raped in a car by other youngster. This girl suffered from Post traumatic stress disorder [PTSD], but she conquered her illness and survive through the worst experiences, learnt the best lesson of moving on and controlling the neural abnormality of her mind and later become an IAS officer. Another example is of caterpillar before his transformation into beautiful butterfly, he has to go through bitter experience to learn the best lessons to touch the sky by spreading his colour wings. At societal level, bitter experiences can transform the society into unshakable and resistant to discrimination and social evils. For eg Women in the Vedic age lost their certain rights such education, property and even subjected to social evils. such as Deva Dasi, Purdah system, Sati, dowry and child marriage. The particular gender suffered because of the hyper-masculine Patriarchy. After many centuries, the society started recognising the issues and problems of females. The modern day females became the perfect symbol of empowerment by sharing their bitter experiences and the lessons they learnt from the past. Another community which suffered a lot is LGBTQ+ community. For centuries they had been treated as outcast and even considered as Mental disorder, the from their trials and mass killing in Europe in 16th and 17th to present day inclusivity in the society shows that society is learning best lessons through bitter and deadly experience from the past. At national level, bitter experiences such as hyperinflation, internal security, trade deficit and economical crisis can force governments and national organisations to take better steps after lessons.

For eg India was totally dependent on Gulf countries for crude oil, then in 1991 Gulf war started in Middle east which jolted the industries and transportation, depleting forex reserves and high inflation cause internal depression from that bitter experiences India learnt an Important lesson that is trade diversification to prevent future disaster like this. India also suffered loss defeat in 1962 war and in 1965 faces two face front war like condition. to from that bitter experiences India learnt the best lesson that it should invest huge money in defence and military and even indulge in global level to secure defence items like fighter jet, weapons and Missiles. At global levels the world leaders and governments should use the past bitter experiences and learn from them to secure global peace and collaboration on certain peaceful and progressive fronts. eg World war I and world war II jolted and cause devastated destruction through weapons, ethnic cleansing, Nuclear bomb dropings. After the war, the world learnt that there is need of a peaceful control over weapons and conflicts which leads to the formation of United nation and other Organisation which prevented certain conflicts and World war III as well.

The Best lessons was that war brings misery and crisis whereas peace brings prosperity and Happiness. Psychology has different interpretation on how bitter experience can lead to best lessons. According to Psychology bitter there are two different outcomes of. which are attained after hard experience. Here is another real life story of Indian Independence struggle, in the initial stage many kingdoms and princely states supported British aspirations in India. Which ultimately lead to British supremacy and these kingdom became puppets in the hand of Britishers. Later these kingdoms and leaders of India launched the freedom struggle and which ultimately leads to Indian Independence, the conclusion is that Indian freedom was attained after hard experience, if the people and kings of India didn't launch their struggle of free India, India would have not been Independent since today. Hard experience of Indian people taught them hopefulness, will power, strength of the mind and superiority of Indian citizens. bitter experience, first outcome can be that person can go become depressed or traumatized by bitter experience for himself. eg. A poor person find in a circular poverty or generational poverty because has become an lesson of poverty tho does not taught him resilience and hope. where as some person become rich by learning best during their tough time of poverty. Poverty taught him to become strong and resilience. It depends on the willpower of the individual. Philosophy has also its take on this topic, in certain philosophies such as Buddhism, one can attain great knowledge and even Nirvana but only through bitter experiences and hard penance. Hindu philosophy also claim that easy life does not lead to best lessons of life. Hard experience - Good lesson are there.

To conclude, it is The conclusion is that Best lesson such as perseverance, humanity, truthfulness, non-violence, love for living and others are always learnt through bitter experience, bitter experiences make person tough, strong, determined and make him a resilient person. Like there is better saying in Hindi, "Haar Toofan Ke Baad, Suraj Firsey Nikalta hai" means Bitter experience always lead to a better life.